How Was Your Day Thread V5

[ShadowOfThePhoenix]

Man, I must be really unlucky. Out of the 45 corazins I got, only 4 were heartbreaks.
Not that I particularly care since I wasn't planning on keeping them, but...

[Soleil]

I'm so angry on my friend's behalf..... I mean, she's angry too but I'm "cut-a-bitch" angry.

Spoiler

S and I have a mutual friend, R.
R started HEAVILY flirting with S around May last year.

S was alright with it. They had a few "non-date" hang outs to see how it felt on the condition that it was NOT a date, they were NOT dating, and they were just friends hanging out. This went on throughout the summer.

Around Sept/Oct, she very politely let R know that she just wasn't feeling a romantic connection to him, he was a great friend and she liked hanging out with him, but she just didn't think dating would be a good choice. At this point, R is completely ENAMORED with her. So of course he started getting all upset, a mixture of a pissy teenager and an emo teen.

A few more months went by, R messaged her DAILY with shit like "what can I do to change your mind? I really like you and I want us to be together" blah blah blah. Daily. Multiple times a day in some circumstances.

Around December, the stalker-ness gets a little more extreme so, S talks to a girl that R claims he was dating a few years ago. Turns out, they never dated and he did the same stalker crazy shit to her, so S deletes him on FB, blocks him, and blocks his cell phone so he can't call her.

January rolls around. Now we are all in the cosplay community, so of course we see each other at cons. He has a huge hissy fit over being blocked and sends a third-party (hates me and S) to tell S how childish she is being, how SHE LED HIM HIM for months, and how she needs to be an adult and go talk to him. Not gonna happen. He's still pissy and S has to be escorted to her car by other male friends because he was stalking her around the building.

This week, R uses someone else's phone to text S again, talking about how hurt he was by her blocking him. How he doesn't know what he did wrong. He just wants things to go back how they were.... etc. etc.

Long story short: I may end up going to jail for killing a man.

[Coffee]

I'm so angry on my friend's behalf..... I mean, she's angry too but I'm "cut-a-bitch" angry.

Spoiler

S and I have a mutual friend, R.
R started HEAVILY flirting with S around May last year.

S was alright with it. They had a few "non-date" hang outs to see how it felt on the condition that it was NOT a date, they were NOT dating, and they were just friends hanging out. This went on throughout the summer.

Around Sept/Oct, she very politely let R know that she just wasn't feeling a romantic connection to him, he was a great friend and she liked hanging out with him, but she just didn't think dating would be a good choice. At this point, R is completely ENAMORED with her. So of course he started getting all upset, a mixture of a pissy teenager and an emo teen.

A few more months went by, R messaged her DAILY with shit like "what can I do to change your mind? I really like you and I want us to be together" blah blah blah. Daily. Multiple times a day in some circumstances.

Around December, the stalker-ness gets a little more extreme so, S talks to a girl that R claims he was dating a few years ago. Turns out, they never dated and he did the same stalker crazy shit to her, so S deletes him on FB, blocks him, and blocks his cell phone so he can't call her.

January rolls around. Now we are all in the cosplay community, so of course we see each other at cons. He has a huge hissy fit over being blocked and sends a third-party (hates me and S) to tell S how childish she is being, how SHE LED HIM HIM for months, and how she needs to be an adult and go talk to him. Not gonna happen. He's still pissy and S has to be escorted to her car by other male friends because he was stalking her around the building.

This week, R uses someone else's phone to text S again, talking about how hurt he was by her blocking him. How he doesn't know what he did wrong. He just wants things to go back how they were.... etc. etc.

Long story short: I may end up going to jail for killing a man.

Spoiler

I feel like, for safety precautions, she should get a restraining order on him.
I personally wouldn't want anything to do with someone who's that stalker-ish and obsessed. Especially if they had done it to someone else (and possible others) before.

[RobotChimera]

I'm so angry on my friend's behalf..... I mean, she's angry too but I'm "cut-a-bitch" angry.

Spoiler

S and I have a mutual friend, R.
R started HEAVILY flirting with S around May last year.

S was alright with it. They had a few "non-date" hang outs to see how it felt on the condition that it was NOT a date, they were NOT dating, and they were just friends hanging out. This went on throughout the summer.

Around Sept/Oct, she very politely let R know that she just wasn't feeling a romantic connection to him, he was a great friend and she liked hanging out with him, but she just didn't think dating would be a good choice. At this point, R is completely ENAMORED with her. So of course he started getting all upset, a mixture of a pissy teenager and an emo teen.

A few more months went by, R messaged her DAILY with shit like "what can I do to change your mind? I really like you and I want us to be together" blah blah blah. Daily. Multiple times a day in some circumstances.

Around December, the stalker-ness gets a little more extreme so, S talks to a girl that R claims he was dating a few years ago. Turns out, they never dated and he did the same stalker crazy shit to her, so S deletes him on FB, blocks him, and blocks his cell phone so he can't call her.

January rolls around. Now we are all in the cosplay community, so of course we see each other at cons. He has a huge hissy fit over being blocked and sends a third-party (hates me and S) to tell S how childish she is being, how SHE LED HIM HIM for months, and how she needs to be an adult and go talk to him. Not gonna happen. He's still pissy and S has to be escorted to her car by other male friends because he was stalking her around the building.

This week, R uses someone else's phone to text S again, talking about how hurt he was by her blocking him. How he doesn't know what he did wrong. He just wants things to go back how they were.... etc. etc.

Long story short: I may end up going to jail for killing a man.

Spoiler

I feel like, for safety precautions, she should get a restraining order on him.
I personally wouldn't want anything to do with someone who's that stalker-ish and obsessed. Especially if they had done it to someone else (and possible others) before.

Spoiler

I second the restraining order. You can never be too careful with scum like these.

[pegasi1978]

I should have trusted my instincts last week when I thought I saw something in the youngest one's hair. I let my husband convince me I was seeing things. I've seen the youngest and the middle one scratching their heads occasionally this week. I decided to look through both their hair today. They have head lice again. so much laundry is now required. At least we had some leftover lice shampoo and a lice comb on hand so I could get a jump on treatment. Need to get more and the comb out spray as well.

[Ayakashi]

Moving heavy furniture by oneself is exhausting, but my home office is now reset, and the cat shouldn't be able to destroy anything else.

[Vampyredragon]

I should have trusted my instincts last week when I thought I saw something in the youngest one's hair. I let my husband convince me I was seeing things. I've seen the youngest and the middle one scratching their heads occasionally this week. I decided to look through both their hair today. They have head lice again. so much laundry is now required. At least we had some leftover lice shampoo and a lice comb on hand so I could get a jump on treatment. Need to get more and the comb out spray as well.

Just a heads up (pun not intended) the lice chemicals dont always work due to resistant headlice. I found the best thing is to slather mayo in the hair (down to the roots) make a "cap" of saran/plastic wrap over the top and THEN wrap a towel over the top of that and leave it for like 6-8 hrs (best if they just wear it to bed.) Then in the morning/after the time is up you wash the hair and comb out the nits (like usual.) The mayo and saran/plastic wrap work to smother the lice and no matter how resistant to the lice treatment they are they cant survive the smothering. Plus the mayo leaves your hair feeling so silky soft! (I had this treatment when I was 14 and a foster sister brought lice into the house...it works. It worked on her lice and hers was so bad that you could SEE the bug corpses on her head once they were all dead. Like after her head was combed out the huge mixing bowl of water we were dunking the nit combs in was like 70% bug corpses!)

[ShadowOfThePhoenix]

I should have trusted my instincts last week when I thought I saw something in the youngest one's hair. I let my husband convince me I was seeing things. I've seen the youngest and the middle one scratching their heads occasionally this week. I decided to look through both their hair today. They have head lice again. so much laundry is now required. At least we had some leftover lice shampoo and a lice comb on hand so I could get a jump on treatment. Need to get more and the comb out spray as well.

Just a heads up (pun not intended) the lice chemicals dont always work due to resistant headlice. I found the best thing is to slather mayo in the hair (down to the roots) make a "cap" of saran/plastic wrap over the top and THEN wrap a towel over the top of that and leave it for like 6-8 hrs (best if they just wear it to bed.) Then in the morning/after the time is up you wash the hair and comb out the nits (like usual.) The mayo and saran/plastic wrap work to smother the lice and no matter how resistant to the lice treatment they are they cant survive the smothering. Plus the mayo leaves your hair feeling so silky soft! (I had this treatment when I was 14 and a foster sister brought lice into the house...it works. It worked on her lice and hers was so bad that you could SEE the bug corpses on her head once they were all dead. Like after her head was combed out the huge mixing bowl of water we were dunking the nit combs in was like 70% bug corpses!)

Wow that's amazing! I've never actually had lice (I guess I'm lucky), but I never knew this was a thing you could do. I'm going to keep this in mind for future reference... just to be safe

[MageLorelei]

*weak laugh* I really should take better care of myself. Like eat real food on a regular basis. So I don't almost faint, like I just did.

[Soleil]

I'm so angry on my friend's behalf..... I mean, she's angry too but I'm "cut-a-bitch" angry.

Spoiler

S and I have a mutual friend, R.
R started HEAVILY flirting with S around May last year.

S was alright with it. They had a few "non-date" hang outs to see how it felt on the condition that it was NOT a date, they were NOT dating, and they were just friends hanging out. This went on throughout the summer.

Around Sept/Oct, she very politely let R know that she just wasn't feeling a romantic connection to him, he was a great friend and she liked hanging out with him, but she just didn't think dating would be a good choice. At this point, R is completely ENAMORED with her. So of course he started getting all upset, a mixture of a pissy teenager and an emo teen.

A few more months went by, R messaged her DAILY with shit like "what can I do to change your mind? I really like you and I want us to be together" blah blah blah. Daily. Multiple times a day in some circumstances.

Around December, the stalker-ness gets a little more extreme so, S talks to a girl that R claims he was dating a few years ago. Turns out, they never dated and he did the same stalker crazy shit to her, so S deletes him on FB, blocks him, and blocks his cell phone so he can't call her.

January rolls around. Now we are all in the cosplay community, so of course we see each other at cons. He has a huge hissy fit over being blocked and sends a third-party (hates me and S) to tell S how childish she is being, how SHE LED HIM HIM for months, and how she needs to be an adult and go talk to him. Not gonna happen. He's still pissy and S has to be escorted to her car by other male friends because he was stalking her around the building.

This week, R uses someone else's phone to text S again, talking about how hurt he was by her blocking him. How he doesn't know what he did wrong. He just wants things to go back how they were.... etc. etc.

Long story short: I may end up going to jail for killing a man.

Spoiler

I feel like, for safety precautions, she should get a restraining order on him.
I personally wouldn't want anything to do with someone who's that stalker-ish and obsessed. Especially if they had done it to someone else (and possible others) before.

Spoiler

I second the restraining order. You can never be too careful with scum like these.

Spoiler

To be blunt: he's a pussy. He won't do anything but whine, cry, and try to guilt people into feeling sorry for him. We've both know him for over 2 years now and it's the same thing with every "breakup" (now I'm questioning if the others were non-existent relationships as well)

I'll be at the next con and he has already been told that if he so much as approaches her, con security will escort him off premises. So I think it'll be fine.